Don't hope other guys will help you to solve your shit problem. You always need do it by yourself.
Don't hope some intelligent man who has a bigger brain will teach you or guide you. The intelligent man never consider to help some people who are not intelligent. If you are intelligent man , why you need other intelligent guys to help you.
In one word, you need build your own house on your hand. If it's beautiful or not depend on how you design it. If it's built fast enough before the rain come depend on how diligent you are.